According Oxford English dictionary, Emotion is every activities of thinking, feeling, passion or great mentally. Daniel Goleman said that emotion is feeling and special thinking, biology situation and psychology and also series of leaning to act.
According Peter Salovey, expert of psychology from Yale University, IQ is depend on five things, such as, ability in knowing emotion, managing emotion, motivating ourselves, knowing the other’ emotion and ability in making relationship with the other. Based on five points, parent can see development of kids’ IQ and grind it.
• Ability in knowing emotion
This is base of IQ. Do they know when they need to be angry or afraid? Giving direction to know their emotion will help knowing what situations can grow reaction of emotion.
• Ability in managing emotion
This is base to show their feeling well verbally and physically. Teaching them to manage their emotion have same meaning with giving direction to show their feeling with the words (such as, I’m happy, I’m afraid, I’m angry, etc) and choose positive action to reflect it.
• Ability in motivating ourselves
This ability will appear when there are reactions of negative emotion. Children may be angry, disappointed, afraid, etc, but grind this ability will make them knowing many things or actions that can return their spirit.
• Ability in knowing the other’ emotion
Empathy is base of social skill. Grinding their empathy will make knowing the other’ emotion. They’ll know that their friend will be sad if they’re deride, mother will be happy if they say love, etc.
• Ability in making relationship
Grinding this ability will make feeling happy and be loved by many people.
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