Milton Chen, an expert of kids’ TV Program, introduce 4 steps to make us be TV Program’ chooser, not be audience. They are,
• Change pattern of watching TV and make kids ask for permit to watch TV.
• Answer their question with question, not with yes or not. For example, when our kids ask for permit to watch TV, answer with question such as, what do you want to watch? Is there any activity do you want to do? Etc.
• Give some questions for ourselves, such as, are there any other activities which is proper to be done than watching TV? Can we ask them to do other activities which more valuable? Etc.
• Stimulate them to start other activities. Give more time to play with them, choose many books, prepare ingredients to cook, etc.
Kamis, 03 Maret 2011
Choose good TV programs for kids.
TV Programs, especially that is include kiddy movie, is showed in kids’ time, or show kid’ actress, usually get exit permit, but is it right that TV Program safe for kids?
Television is miracle box. It brings interesting message and be favorite for everyone. Unfortunately, TV Program has 25% role in which educate and free from something contradictive and contraproductive. It has 75% role which give bad influence for kids.
In fact, programs for kids aren’t free from bad influence. They invite kids be unsocial, sex desacralisation, lazy, consumtif , and full of criminals. Kids learn from seeing, recording, imitating, and TV has high role which influent their learning.
Good program is program in which entertain and educate, stimulate of creativity but still in religion line, make kids be happy, has positive expression, good imagination, and build sensoric and motoric ability. But it is difficult to find good TV Program for kids.
As parent, we can’t isolate kids from watching TV, because kids can watch it in other place. We can minimize the bad influence by selection of TV Program which may be watched or not and accompany when they watch. We should change pattern of watching TV in our family. We turn on TV when there are good program and turn of it when it ends.
Television is miracle box. It brings interesting message and be favorite for everyone. Unfortunately, TV Program has 25% role in which educate and free from something contradictive and contraproductive. It has 75% role which give bad influence for kids.
In fact, programs for kids aren’t free from bad influence. They invite kids be unsocial, sex desacralisation, lazy, consumtif , and full of criminals. Kids learn from seeing, recording, imitating, and TV has high role which influent their learning.
Good program is program in which entertain and educate, stimulate of creativity but still in religion line, make kids be happy, has positive expression, good imagination, and build sensoric and motoric ability. But it is difficult to find good TV Program for kids.
As parent, we can’t isolate kids from watching TV, because kids can watch it in other place. We can minimize the bad influence by selection of TV Program which may be watched or not and accompany when they watch. We should change pattern of watching TV in our family. We turn on TV when there are good program and turn of it when it ends.
Tips in making our children get breakfast
• Waking up earlier in order to get much time in preparing breakfast.
• Asking children to wake up earlier, so they will have much time to get breakfast.
• Giving good example such as, always get breakfast everyday.
• Getting breakfast together. It is good for discipline.
• Remembering children to get breakfast everyday and giving explanation about benefit of getting breakfast.
• If they still don’t have much time to get breakfast, give some foods to be brought to school.
• For children who usually don’t get breakfast, give little food for first as exercise. We may add it step by step, but we still use balance nutrition pattern.
• Asking children to wake up earlier, so they will have much time to get breakfast.
• Giving good example such as, always get breakfast everyday.
• Getting breakfast together. It is good for discipline.
• Remembering children to get breakfast everyday and giving explanation about benefit of getting breakfast.
• If they still don’t have much time to get breakfast, give some foods to be brought to school.
• For children who usually don’t get breakfast, give little food for first as exercise. We may add it step by step, but we still use balance nutrition pattern.
All about health of kids
Kid’ brain will be growth up 18 months. Although kid’ brain of 6th up 12th years old doesn’t grow but keeping their health has role to optimization their IQ.
Less nutrition in baby time up 18 months has direct role to kid’ IQ. This is leaving trace until they’re adult. In the other words, the role is permanent. This statement is strength by observation about nutrition and IQ. The result is kids who get less nutrition grow slower than kids who get enough.
The fastest growing of brain happen in the end of pregnancy until 18 months. After that, growing of brain will be slower until 5 years old.
Indicate of healthy
Physically, health kids are they who grow normally. In measuring, don’t just see growing of their heavy, but also see the comparing between heavy and height.
Heavy of healthy thin kids must grow every month. If it doesn’t, we must find out what is the cause. It may cause of less nutrition, super activities or disease.
Kids are called fat if their heavy more than 20% ideal heavy. It may cause of genetic. If both of mother and father are fat, there is 80% possibility to get fat baby. If just one of them is fat, there is 40% of possibility, but if parent are thin, there is 7-10% of possibility.
Eating more fat and less fiber is also making fat. It also may cause abnormally of hormone such as tiroid or abnormally of brain that disturb brain control to feel satisfied.
Less nutrition in baby time up 18 months has direct role to kid’ IQ. This is leaving trace until they’re adult. In the other words, the role is permanent. This statement is strength by observation about nutrition and IQ. The result is kids who get less nutrition grow slower than kids who get enough.
The fastest growing of brain happen in the end of pregnancy until 18 months. After that, growing of brain will be slower until 5 years old.
Indicate of healthy
Physically, health kids are they who grow normally. In measuring, don’t just see growing of their heavy, but also see the comparing between heavy and height.
Heavy of healthy thin kids must grow every month. If it doesn’t, we must find out what is the cause. It may cause of less nutrition, super activities or disease.
Kids are called fat if their heavy more than 20% ideal heavy. It may cause of genetic. If both of mother and father are fat, there is 80% possibility to get fat baby. If just one of them is fat, there is 40% of possibility, but if parent are thin, there is 7-10% of possibility.
Eating more fat and less fiber is also making fat. It also may cause abnormally of hormone such as tiroid or abnormally of brain that disturb brain control to feel satisfied.
Making Emotion be Intelligence
According Oxford English dictionary, Emotion is every activities of thinking, feeling, passion or great mentally. Daniel Goleman said that emotion is feeling and special thinking, biology situation and psychology and also series of leaning to act.
According Peter Salovey, expert of psychology from Yale University, IQ is depend on five things, such as, ability in knowing emotion, managing emotion, motivating ourselves, knowing the other’ emotion and ability in making relationship with the other. Based on five points, parent can see development of kids’ IQ and grind it.
• Ability in knowing emotion
This is base of IQ. Do they know when they need to be angry or afraid? Giving direction to know their emotion will help knowing what situations can grow reaction of emotion.
• Ability in managing emotion
This is base to show their feeling well verbally and physically. Teaching them to manage their emotion have same meaning with giving direction to show their feeling with the words (such as, I’m happy, I’m afraid, I’m angry, etc) and choose positive action to reflect it.
• Ability in motivating ourselves
This ability will appear when there are reactions of negative emotion. Children may be angry, disappointed, afraid, etc, but grind this ability will make them knowing many things or actions that can return their spirit.
• Ability in knowing the other’ emotion
Empathy is base of social skill. Grinding their empathy will make knowing the other’ emotion. They’ll know that their friend will be sad if they’re deride, mother will be happy if they say love, etc.
• Ability in making relationship
Grinding this ability will make feeling happy and be loved by many people.
According Peter Salovey, expert of psychology from Yale University, IQ is depend on five things, such as, ability in knowing emotion, managing emotion, motivating ourselves, knowing the other’ emotion and ability in making relationship with the other. Based on five points, parent can see development of kids’ IQ and grind it.
• Ability in knowing emotion
This is base of IQ. Do they know when they need to be angry or afraid? Giving direction to know their emotion will help knowing what situations can grow reaction of emotion.
• Ability in managing emotion
This is base to show their feeling well verbally and physically. Teaching them to manage their emotion have same meaning with giving direction to show their feeling with the words (such as, I’m happy, I’m afraid, I’m angry, etc) and choose positive action to reflect it.
• Ability in motivating ourselves
This ability will appear when there are reactions of negative emotion. Children may be angry, disappointed, afraid, etc, but grind this ability will make them knowing many things or actions that can return their spirit.
• Ability in knowing the other’ emotion
Empathy is base of social skill. Grinding their empathy will make knowing the other’ emotion. They’ll know that their friend will be sad if they’re deride, mother will be happy if they say love, etc.
• Ability in making relationship
Grinding this ability will make feeling happy and be loved by many people.
Making kids crazy in reading.
What happen if we make reading habit for kids since they’re baby? We can ask to Jim Trelease, writer of The Read Aloud Handbook. He said that we can teach our baby to read since 4 month. If we do, at 9 month, they’re able to choose what kind of book they like. And then, at 5 years old, they can teach them themselves to read.
For first, we can introduce book with opening nice page colorful and tell it briefly. Show them what picture it is and imitate the sound. Besides introducing read by wordless picture book, we can read story book whey they woke up or went to sleep.
At 6 month, kids will be happy when their parent brought book for them. They will move almost all of their body to response.
At 9 month, they’re able to choose what kind of book they like. There are many books that more be chosen than the other.
Their interest to read should be kept when they’re growth. Invite them to library or bookstore. As parent, we have to be near with book. When we go, bring them in our bag. It show how valuable knowledge which is saved in papers called book. Talk about book as often as we can, and give praise to nice book. Apply selected response to read more than others. It is called positive reinforcement, so they can be happy to do that.
The result of like reading is their interest to write and ask many things. If they do that, don’t be angry. It means that you’re success in making them like reading.
For first, we can introduce book with opening nice page colorful and tell it briefly. Show them what picture it is and imitate the sound. Besides introducing read by wordless picture book, we can read story book whey they woke up or went to sleep.
At 6 month, kids will be happy when their parent brought book for them. They will move almost all of their body to response.
At 9 month, they’re able to choose what kind of book they like. There are many books that more be chosen than the other.
Their interest to read should be kept when they’re growth. Invite them to library or bookstore. As parent, we have to be near with book. When we go, bring them in our bag. It show how valuable knowledge which is saved in papers called book. Talk about book as often as we can, and give praise to nice book. Apply selected response to read more than others. It is called positive reinforcement, so they can be happy to do that.
The result of like reading is their interest to write and ask many things. If they do that, don’t be angry. It means that you’re success in making them like reading.
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